A few words about manners

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We are convinced that decent people can never be rude, abrupt, vulgar, not only with your loved one, but also with people unfamiliar.
"Why are you blaming me to rudeness?" - in the hearts asked us a very handsome young man, who invited to dance with the girl sharp jerk. He was not even looking in her direction. Just come up, grabbed her arm and quickly and imperative said, "let's Go!"
And the girl? Outraged, in your opinion? Proudly raised her head and frowned? I was truly the right moment in order to give a lesson of dignity, selfish boy! But, alas! The lesson was not. Resistance? My goodness! What resistance? The reaction was quite the opposite: not even surprised, not expressing a word of reproach, she went to dance. And when we asked this young man about the reason for his rudeness, he arrogantly said, "And what is bad? I like it, you know? And I want to be with her!".
Later we asked the girl why it made so disrespectful to it belong. "Yes, you know,somewhat unwillingly she said.- Now many boys do, and without any parsing: likes and dislikes, wants to dance with someone, and they were even forced to leave. And this guy I like long! You really, please don't tell him anything, okay?"
Here you have a demanding, and respect each other! You know these guys are the essence of true beauty relations, sense of human dignity? What wins this girl? Obviously, the rough male power, apparent his courage and the "bivalent" or "experience", which wrongly understood to be young and seen as especially significant, positive.
Deserve attention and manners of young people, manifested in the dances. Some of the postures, gestures cause rightful indignation adults, educated in the spirit of high moral rules. Of course, we cannot ignore the constant development trends in the art of dance. His new drawings, changes the nature of the individual movements, there is a new rhythm and style of performance. New dance tunes contribute to the passion of youth new, fashionable, modern. And this, of course, it is natural and understandable. But, being fond of new, young people often lose sight of severity, which, in turn, leads to pretentiousness, distortion, vulgarization.
Much debate has arisen about whether to allow young people to dance to the rock & roll, twist, shake, Hali-Gali and other contemporary dances. Not corrupt are they children? Not lead to sexual promiscuity?
Probably, it is necessary to speak not about the need for modern dances and ask them to dance, and about what and how should be done in the family, at school for the beliefs of young people in need is critical approach to new, often coming from abroad, the need to care always and in everything about generosity, virtue, beauty and modesty. Youth are characterized by the desire to imitate, but it might be different. Currently, useful imitation good example is necessary, and should be distinguished from "monkey" imitative. It is from this imitative and need to protect our youth.
Very useful in the family to talk about moderate follow everything new, bright, fashionable, the grandeur of the humble and simple man. Even more important is that the parents showed young people a worthy example wonderful combination of received C our time new modern norms of behavior with some already known and, according to young, outdated norms. It is necessary to develop in children the ability to be critical of others and to ourselves, as well as the ability to resist all alien, not peculiar to high standards of Communist morality.