Love or love?

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These concepts are very similar. They are often found in our speech: "I'm in love and very much",- convinced the young man says. "I love the long... for three months",- confidently echoed the girl. They both talk about feelings, but these feelings are not identical, cannot replace each other according to their significance and intensity and duration, even on the degree of awareness. However, often in conversation these concepts are replaced one another, which is typical for young people. "How he loves her!",- they may say about the relationship a week ago met the guys. This is understandable: they are characterized by the desire to exaggerate the strength of feelings, because of the peculiarities of the age, in particular great enthusiasm, lyricism. Young people often talks about how many times can love people. And already this question suggests that boys and girls are not even brought up a correct understanding of the deep and strong human feeling.
Here we have the notes of a young, sent to us on the dispute. They unsigned (so freer to check their opinions!). One of them:
"Tell me, how many people you love? I do not mean, of course, brothers, sisters and other people, and people of the same age?".
I think that the Memorandum is written not for a joke. This question young people set quite often. Obviously, bad sparingly and spoke with them the elders about love real, deep, strong, and often only be taken as a precious gift through life. Therefore, it is so easy to speak about what kind of feeling the guys. Even the word "love", "fell out of love", of course, are not associated with something real, with a specific person. Talk about feelings often become for some thoughtless, 's character: "He loves her, and she triumphed over him! Yesterday when all he said Stop, I write notes, I ditch without reading".
That conversation was, apparently, a friend, a focus on (love?) and she answers ridicule.
Why not just come up with the guys, trying to "play" in "adult" feelings. One boy every day called you on the phone girl classmate and invariably repeated the same phrase: "I love you. Do you believe me?". And when, one day, his friend asked whether this is really a boy, innocently smiling, replied: "No... I'm just... Let me think who it is she explained... Sorry, that last days to the phone she approached did not, and I, not having understood, explained her mother...".
The game! Is it possible to play? Another boy decided to Express their feelings of not less original. Skopje ruble three of money, he sent his classmate, which was completely indifferent, long telegram, in which the word "love" appeared 30 times.